LoVE is in the Air...

Dear Roey... i never think of getting a pair of earing and a lovely card as my early birthday present.Really touched.

i LOVE U... not just because U r my husband. 

i LOVE U.. not just because U are paying my rental, electric bill.

i LOVE U.. not just because U "feed" me everyday.

i LOVE U... not just because U bring laughter in my life.

i LOVE U.. not just because U are so protective.

i LOVE U... because I LOVE U!! 

The feeling is deep inside my heart. It become stronger and stronger after we get married. People said most of the husband will change after get married. Yes, i agree. Because my husband changed even better compared to when we dating (for now.. :P) Thanks, ONG ROEY JIEA!!!!!!!!! :D

What Expression when YOU are working?

I believe in the age of 25, a lot of us are working with either private sectors, government sectors and some of them even deal with own business. I really respect who are dealing with his own business because they are taking risk on doing that.

Many colleagues or friends of mine are working from 8am to 5pm, even some of them are working more than that. What is the purpose of doing a job by putting so much effort on it and at the end, we are just getting that "amount" of salary? Is it just because of the "cost of living"? Well, I guess the answer would be YES.

I presume everyone wish to wake up in the week days morning with the feeling of joyful, happy, but not worries and stress. But, this is not the case. L Last two weeks, I’ve suffered severe headache because stay late in the night, reading articles, documents and etc. My wife accompanies me to the Adventist Hospital (try to promote because it is a very good hospital.J) to seek advice from doctors. He did some checking on my body and some of my reflection and all are OK. He advised me a lot and keeps in as A BIG REMINDER in my mind.

Blessing. Few weeks later, my headache is slowly recover and I feel thankful to GOD as HE send her (my wife) to me and take good care of me. J

Err...my writing still not yet finished but it is 1PM now. Well, I have to stop writing and continue with my JOB. I’m not sure whether I still can withstand with all these circuit complexity and tasks but handling them in happy manners will reduce stress and anxiety.

Guys, a piece of advice… Don’t stay late and sleep enough. Plan well and work smart, not work hard. J

 

Question i created for fun :P

1) During work, you used to be like..

A) -_- zz (Sleep)
B) O_O (Stun)
C) :D (Happy)
D) ;(  (SOB SOB)

When meet you boss, you are..
A) ^&%%^#$%*&^ (sth like say a word to ur boss: "wtf"...)
B) +_+ (kena "gou gou li", die)
C) :P (Ignore him)
D) :D (Smile but wish to punch him)

Written by Roey^^

Worries....

Money? LOves? Works? Children? I believe everyone struggled hard in every aspects of life. When we went to work, need to face all kinds of challenges. When came back from work, need to face challenges at home. I were thankful i have a very understanding husband who helped me a lot. Worry not enough money... That the reason both husband and wife need to work nowadays.Now my worry is when i am pregnant and give birth, who am i going to hire to take care of my little baby. Everyday after i back from work, i am so damn tired. Need to cook... when i have baby, need to take care of the little one. I am worry i unable to cope with it, and become abusive? i do not want to become such mommy. i want to give my little one a happy family. I always blame myself to think that baby is a burden in a family. All of these... it really need discussion between a couple. Roey, i do not think we are ready to have a little one. Or God, please give me a pull. I feel like crying, i feel helpless. I am just 25. Am i ready to become a mommy?

Fun of the day: Railway Sleepers :)

Railway Sleepers

Villagers in Rawa Buaya lying on a railway track while waiting for a train to rattle* by for 'electrical therapy' in Jakarta, Indonesia. People in the outskirts of the capital have been participating in the treatment after hearing a rumor about a man who was partially paralyzed by a stroke going to the tracks to kill himself but found himself cured instead. The Indonesians believe the electrical current from the track can cure various diseases. 

From The Star Newspaper said: "Malaysians, however, are advised not to try this out!!" 

Well... I agree.. :P

*rattle: to make a noise like hard things hitting each other, or make somebody suddenly become worried.

• He rattled the money in the tin.
• The news of his arrival really rattled her.

From: Roey^^ (A smile a day keeps doctors away!)

The Lifespan of a Flash Drive

Some of my friends do ask me about the lifespan of a flash drive because they know that.... I'm an electronic engineer. Frankly speaking, I do not know much on flash... :P

Here is the explanation taken from NYTimes.com... Hope it help to clear your doubt..

The memory cells used in flash drives do eventually wear out, but this is typically caused by the number of times data is written to the memory - as opposed to the physical age of the drive itself.

Depending on the type and manufacturer's specifications, a flash drive may have 10,000 to a million data write cycles before it begins giving error messages when you try to use it. The amount of time a flash drive works also varies with the physical condition of the device. Many suffer a shortened lifespan because of trips through the washing machine, accidents underfoot or unfortunate encounters with house-hold pets. With proper care, a flash drive could last years!! But if you start to get a lot of error messages when you try to use it or it seems noticeably slow, it is probably time to move all the data off that drive and back to the computer or to a new flash drive.

For more details.. you can read on this page. :D

Five things you never knew about flash drives

Life Expectancy of a USB Flash Drive 

   

From Roey^^

I am BIG BIG GIRL... in a BIG BIG WORLD...

I am a BIG BIG girl.. in a BIG BIG world.. PART I

Abortion and abandoned young children become a social issue all over the world. When a woman is pregnant accidentally, she will be blamed and isolated by family. This is one of the reason abortion happened. This  is not an individual issue, but social. Our country citizen still conservative minded. Sexual education is important. But since young, we are not exposed with it. It become harder when parents are very shy to share the knowledge with their children. I had been through the period of dating, we are flesh human being. Sexual temptation is everywhere. Sexual education and religion are here to help. So i hope to share some tips on family planning (specifically method of contraceptives). But i am not encouraging youngsters to practice it. But, "prevention is better than cure".

When i was young, i ever asked my mom:"How do you bring me to this world?" She was very honest to me. But she did mention she did ask the same question to grandma. Grandma said she was from dustbin. haha.... :P We need to be honest to youngsters nowadays because they are generation of curiosity.Pregnancy happened when a guy (sperm) met with girl (ovary during ovulation) through sexual intercourse or intimacy. Ovulation is the time where egg is produced by ovary.If the egg does not meet the sperm, it will burst and become menstrual or what we called as period. 

Family planning is a new age concept whereby a couple takes measures to space out the birth of their child or opt for a gender specific child by using certain natural or artificial methods. The methods of family planning might involve using contraceptives, condoms or by surgical methods. The most important factor of family planning is the health of the baby and the mother. When a woman gives birth to a child she undergoes a lot of physical trauma or stress and if proper family planning is not done then it could be harmful to the health of both the mother and the subsequent child. According to UNICEF every year half a million women die due to pregnancy related complications.

Another important reason of family planning is that family planning reduces the rate of abortions. Unwanted pregnancy leads to abortions which are gruesome and it harms the body as well. A startling statistic which is given by the Center for Bioethical Reform is that every year around the world a total of 42 million abortions happen. Thus good family planning leads to lesser abortion and lesser harm to the body. In conclusion, family planning is to help a couple plan a suitable time to pregnant and to plan the size of the family. Below are five common methods: 

1. Natural Methods:
How does this method helps? It was done by avoiding sexual intercourse during fertile days of a woman.Below are three commons method used: 

Rhythm or calendar methods

Cervical mucus methods

• Changes in the amount and consistency of cervical mucus. 
• Accurate assessment free of semen, contraceptive gels or foams, and blood or discharge from vaginal infections for at least one full cycle. 
• Affected by: douches and vaginal deodorants, sexually aroused state, medications such as antihistamines.
• Dryness → sticky (but does not stretch) → cloudy raw egg white (increase in estrogen), clear, stringy, slippery (lubricative), and stretchable. Slipperiness and a sensation of wetness = ovulation is occur. 
• Sexual abstinence until the fourth day after the peak mucus sign. Sticky, thick, and cloudy and less in amount (under progesterone influence).

Breast feeding

 

•  It works by suppress ovulation from happen. 
• But this method require consistent breast feeding.
• Once there is breakthrough bleeding or period, it is not longer effective. 

Advantages: 

• Accepted by religious groups that have  prohibitions against other types of contraception.

• Teaches a woman about her own reproductive physiology.

• Safe, inexpensive, or free.

• Teaches couples to work together on family planning. 

Disadvantages:

• Requires much information about physiological parameter.

• Monitored symptoms are sometimes vague or subtle.

• Women with irregular cycles may find the calendar and basal body temperature methods ineffective.

• Requires planning, partner cooperation. 
• May diminish spontaneity.   

Hormonal Contraceptives? Barrier methods? IUCD? Operation?
How does these method help? Stay tuned for more details and methods... ;) have a nice day..